“If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism.”

This saying rings truer every time I reflect on my experiences with the two incredible autistic boys in my life—my cousin J and my little nephew H.

Having a cousin on the spectrum, I thought I was prepared for anything. But then H came along, and I quickly realized that no two autistic individuals are the same. Each one is a unique world unto themselves, teaching us to adapt, observe, and love in ways we never expected.

Being an aunt or a cousin to someone with autism is a profound gift. It opens doors to emotions and connections that are both deeply rewarding and uniquely challenging. As an aunt, I get to pour unconditional love into my nephew, dreaming of playful cuddles and shared laughter. As a cousin, it’s a different bond—familiar yet distinct, filled with its…

When I first stepped into the world of autism support, I felt like I was navigating a vast, unfamiliar forest. It was overwhelming, yet I knew I wasn’t alone. There were others walking this path, sharing stories, advice, and hope. That’s the magic of an autism support network - it’s a community that uplifts and connects us all.

It is more than just a group or a list of resources. It’s a living, breathing community where parents, caregivers, and professionals come together with a shared purpose. Imagine a warm, welcoming circle where every voice matters, and every experience is valued. This network becomes a safe harbor in the sometimes-stormy seas of raising a child with autism.

In these networks, we find practical advice that feels like a gentle hand guiding us through daily challenges. From tips on managing sensory overload to strategies for improving communication, the knowledge shared is deep and…

Returning to South Africa, my birthplace, has always felt like stepping into a warm embrace. A safe zone that grounds me no matter how far I’ve roamed.

This time, though, the journey was different. I wasn’t just coming home; I was bringing my little boy along, and with his dad out at sea for months, traveling solo with a young child was no small feat.

What I discovered, however, was a South Africa that not only welcomed us with open arms but surprised me with its vibrant, supportive community.A village that made us feel truly at home.

Traveling with a young child, especially alone, can be daunting. The logistics, the meltdowns, the constant juggling—it’s a lot. But as soon as we landed in our beautiful country, I was struck by an overwhelming sense of connection. The skies were blue, the air was warm, and the people? They were the heart…

Share your journey, challenges, and triumphs as a parent of an autistic child. This group is a safe space to exchange stories, advice, and support with others who truly understand. Whether you’re celebrating a win or navigating a setback, your experience matters here. Connect, learn, and grow together as a community.

The depth of two black eyes plunged deep within me is the first memory I have of my beloved nephew, barely two months old. I will never forget the strength of this little being newly arrived on earth. Having a nephew is an invaluable gift when the relationship with one's own brother is perfect and harmonious, just like with his wife. I remember the announcement of the pregnancy, the day of his birth, and the wave of instant love that overwhelmed me, even from a distance. I could feel that unique and unsettling feeling that only comes with the arrival of a child. Getting to know him, discovering him, spending time cherishing him, and supporting my brother and his wife as much as possible was my sole objective. I quickly sensed that Hélios was different, more intense, deeper, perhaps a bit more complex at times, especially in the daily life…