The depth of two black eyes plunged deep within me is the first memory I have of my beloved nephew, barely two months old. I will never forget the strength of this little being newly arrived on earth. Having a nephew is an invaluable gift when the relationship with one's own brother is perfect and harmonious, just like with his wife. I remember the announcement of the pregnancy, the day of his birth, and the wave of instant love that overwhelmed me, even from a distance. I could feel that...